Thursday, 15 August 2013

I'm going to miss you Singapore!!

Day 38

Even though sleeping in is quite difficult due to the heat, today I managed it without any problem! I had a really chilled morning, sent a few life admin emails and then got myself mentally prepared for the last instalment of souvenir shopping. This time I decided to go to Little India and as it was Hari Raya, as soon as I arrived there I became completely immersed in the spirit of the area. People were either sat beneath the palm trees gossiping away or forcing their way through the numerous market stalls and little shops. I was swept away with this latter crowd as we shuffled through the bustling streets together. I had fun testing out my bargaining skills and managed to stay relatively firm (most of the time)! I say that, but I’m still not quite sure how I was persuaded to buy not one, but two, full saris... They’re really beautiful and it’s all about supporting the local economy, so it’s all great J

The streets were packed everywhere today, but a friend and I decided to visit Gardens by the Bay (the place with the gigantic ‘supertrees’), where the crowds were slightly less overwhelming. We relaxed by the water with a sushi picnic and then ventured into the ‘Cloud Forest’, one of the two domes in which a rainforest environment is recreated. As with many things in Singapore, I’d never seen anything like this place – a towering man made waterfall was lit up by purple lights and surrounded by exotic plants and beautiful orchids (the national flower of Singapore). There are numerous elevated walkways and bridges along which we could observe all of this from above, and also see MBS from yet another new perspective J Just before the exit of the ‘Cloud Forest’ there is a big screen projection of the kinds of changes which we can expect in the world with various temperature increases of up to 5C. The small film was very powerful, and rather frightening...

We strolled through the centre, feeling the refreshing evening air flow swiftly around us. We stopped to listen to some live music being played in honour of Hari Raya: the traditional Malay songs were catchy, joyous and a real pleasure to listen to (sometimes I actually prefer not understanding the language in which songs are sung...) It was a peaceful and blissful evening after which I returned home to unravel my bursting-with-colour saris.

Day 39

Happy 48th Birthday Singapore, and here’s to many more National Days ahead!

This celebration called for another lie in, which I appreciated very much. However, there’s only so much time I can spend in my room here, so I soon relocated to a little cafe to continue my relaxation with a book.

Singaporeans seem divided as to what to do for National Day – some want to go straight into the centre to watch the parade and fireworks (which means getting trampled by the crowds) and some prefer to stay away, or even to escape to Malaysia or elsewhere. A friend had invited me along to a little house party where they would be showing all the festivities on TV, and this seemed like a great compromise! So I went along, met some more people (who were lovely but sometimes switched to speaking Mandarin between themselves), was fed lots of delicious food and saw all the National Day celebrations. The country puts a serious amount of effort into the whole event and it really shows: from the military’s precision, to the diversity of creative acts to the dazzling fireworks, Singapore certainly has a lot to be proud of. I also watched them play Mahjong, which is a Chinese gambling game. They tried to explain it to me but either I was being stupid or it really is very complicated, because even after the explanation I still felt totally clueless, so I stuck to observing.

As it turned out, this little gathering was to celebrate the host’s brother’s 30th Birthday, which I had no idea about until they passed me a card to sign for him (not that I even knew his name!!) Before I knew it, we were all singing Happy Birthday and posing for photos with all of his family and friends. It felt very random, but I guess it just adds to the variety of my Singaporean adventures...

Day 40

Today it was time to prove anyone who thinks that Singapore is 100% urban wrong! Several of the Singaporeans who study in Cambridge and I spent the day in Pulau Ubin, which is a small island off the East coast of Singapore (which belongs to Singapore). In fact, according to official sources, Singapore consists of 63 islands; it’s just that some of them are veeery small.

We started the day with Nasi Lemak, which is delicious coconut rice with fried chicken and a fried egg (this is breakfast!!) and then took a little boat to the island. The beauty of this island is that there are only a few registered vehicles on it and no private cars can be brought on, so everyone cycles around. We rented some bikes and went ahead with exploring the island. It was covered in coconut trees, palm trees and other tropical vegetation, as well as lakes, mangroves and traditional kampong (village) style dwellings. Both the aesthetics and the feel of Pulau Ubin were a million miles away from those of the city centre and other parts of mainland Singapore... We had to keep reminding ourselves that we were still in Singapore!

We saw a cosy little Chinese temple (Fo Shan Ting Da Bo Gong Temple J) and the German Girl Shrine before stopping for some perfectly refreshing coconut juice (drunk straight from the coconut) and tasty sea food. The bikes had no gears and were slightly rusty, which along with the heat made cycling rather challenging, but our treat after the cycle was... a fish spa! This was quite a surreal experience. When we first dipped our feet in the fish pool, we couldn’t stop giggling and splashing about, but I gradually got used to it and began to enjoy it. Some of the fish were much bigger than we were expecting and we could see their mouths opening and closing as though they were about to munch our feet up whole! So, I can’t say that it was the most relaxing experience of my life, but it sure made my feet smoother (especially the toes for some reason!)

We returned to the mainland and found the perfect spot from which to do some cloud watching, not because that’s our usual Saturday night hobby, but because the sky and the sunset were truly beautiful. We then drove across the island to taste ‘the best’ laksa in Singapore. Now, I hadn’t really bought into this queuing up for ‘the best’ this and that, which is quite common practice for many Singaporeans, until I tried this laksa (it’s a complex dish, but just to give the non-Singaporeans a flavour, the main ingredients are noodles, prawns and a curry-like sauce which in this case was coconut). Yum yum yum yum yum! I can wholeheartedly say that it was worth a drive across town J

I got home quite late, and after an exciting and very long day, I was feeling quite ready to sleep. On the other hand, it was Saturday night! Soo I had a quick revitalising shower and after a day in the wilderness, I headed into civilization (Clarke Quay of course). I met my friends on the pre-drinking bridge and I’m not quite sure how this happened but instead of going out, we ended up staying on the bridge until 4.30am!! It was quite a bizarre but very funny night, because I remember meeting people from Spain, the Netherlands, Brazil, Australia, Malaysia (and probably elsewhere) and having very random and entertaining conversations with them. Who knew that the bridge could be the site of so much excitement!?

Day 41

Sleep could wait – there were more people to meet and more things to do! In the morning I met up with the wonderfully friendly girl who I’d met right at the start of my trip who had jetted off to London for a month only a few days after we met. We chilled by an indoor ice rink whilst exchanging experiences of London and Singapore and sharing our plans for the future. It was a great way to spend the morning for two true chatterboxes, and it certainly put me in the mood to come home and to do some proper London exploring!

A bit later I met my other local friend and we went for a mini hike in the Southern Ridges. As I was waiting for her, a few girls from the Philippines came up to me and asked to take a photo with me... Interesting - they gathered around, all hugged me tightly and snap, snap, snap went the cameras. It made them VERY happy, so I didn’t mind (and one of them now has the photo as her Facebook cover photo!)

My friend and I climbed many steps to the top of Mt Faber (which is apparently a hill rather than a mountain) and then walked along the Henderson Waves, from which the view of the Harbour Front is quite precious. This lovely friend had previously worked at the cable car company which links Mt Faber to the island of Sentosa, so she was magically able to get us free tickets for the cable car. It was a great surprise and the view from the cable car was terrific in every direction!

Later that evening we wondered over to Keppel Bay, which is where all the private yachts are moored. The serene atmosphere here was especially noticeable, and formed an interesting paradox of being simultaneously exclusive and welcoming.
After a fabulous Singaporean weekend, I couldn’t bring myself to start packing just yet...

Day 42

Just as I thought that work was coming to an end, I met with my boss and she asked me to produce a presentation for tomorrow. That’s fine, I guess I can do that J I also tidied up all the documents which I’ve produced during my time here and transferred them to the shared folder – I really hope that some of the things will be useful to them!

At about 5pm, I was in my own little world of work when I heard, ‘Sonya, can you smell something?’ – quite an unusual office question!! It turns out that they’d prepared a little leaving surprise for me, which was completely unexpected and very thoughtful of them. We had some delicious office snacks (including some amazing fig tarts) accompanied by fruit tea, and they presented me with one of their office sustainability t-shirts wrapped into a scroll form. I’ve learnt that how much you enjoy your work and the quality of work which you produce can largely depend on the people who you’re working with, and I’m definitely going to miss working with my colleagues from OES. I’ve been very lucky to have worked with such interesting, diverse and supportive people in my first ever office job.

Feeling touched by the little office party, I headed home to do a bit of packing, which is when I realised that I’ve accumulated many more things than I had on the way here! Later that night I went into China Town and was very glad that I did, because I absolutely love cities by night, and the lantern lit streets here gave the area a very special feel which differed completely to the China Town I’d seen by day. I also saw some sort of Hindu ceremony in one of the temples, which looked very exciting (although I’ve yet to find out exactly what it was for). After running several of my final errands, I walked towards Clarke Quay and all was going smoothly until I randomly fell over (!?!) There was no one around, but I found it very funny – I can’t even remember the last time in my life when I fell over and grazed my knees!!

Anyway, Clarke Quay was glorious as usual and I took many photos (both real and mental) of the river and the colourful lights which brought the area to life with their sparkle. The moon was also beautiful that night and after deciding that my knee graze was worthy of an ice cream, I sat outside a bar called the Crazy Elephant and relished my ice cream whilst listening to their wonderful live music. I know that this place, as well as numerous others in Singapore, will stick with me for many years to come.

Day 43

My last day at work was a really busy and exciting one! First, their new intern from Tokyo arrived today. They asked me to give him a tour of the building, which brought back vivid memories of my first few days in Singapore. Only after doing three rounds of the building did I manage to find the entrance to the roof garden – I think that the Tokyo dude thought that I was a bit crazy, but I was glad to go up there again (it’s a waste having a roof garden if no one ever goes up there!)

At 10am I went to a meeting with some people from the healthy eating department to discuss our healthy-eco-canteen proposal (and I actually contributed to the meeting, yay!) After a lovely lunch, I was allowed to attend an NUS geography lecture (their term had started yesterday – in the middle of August!) One of the SAVE students who I’d made friend with kindly took me along to his lecture on ‘Globalising Asian Cities’. It was really interesting and reminded me what it’s like to be a student rather than an office worker J it also confirmed just how hard students work here – whereas I’m used to relatively manageable 50 minute lectures, this lecture was almost an epic two hours long!

Then I went straight to a meeting with the people from the bookshop in which I’d been working on designing a sustainability corner with green books, speakers and workshops. Although it’s sad that I won’t be around to see the final outcome, I was very glad to see that things were starting to take shape and that the people from the bookshop seemed on board. Maybe I’ll have to fly back for the sustainability workshop J And from there I parted with my colleagues, thanked them for everything and said farewell for now. I hate goodbyes – I’ve got so used to working here that it still feels like I’ll wonder straight back into my mini office tomorrow...

Back at my residence I met my friend for the most delicious avocado milkshakes ever. Even though I’ll be seeing him in Cambridge, I still found saying goodbye quite emotional... Then I continued on my round of farewells. I went into Clarke Quay to see my main bunny hopper friend and to thank him for keeping me well exercised, amongst other things. Finally, I met up with a few other friends, including my number one ladies night girlie and a few brilliant people who I’ve been out with several times. It really made me wish that I’d met these people earlier in my trip, because it seemed way too soon to be parting...

We went to a really funny stand up comedy night in which most of the comedians based their jokes around local cultural stereotypes (of the Filipinos, the Malays, the Chinese, the Indians, and so on). The fact that I understood most of the references made me feel like I’d spent the last six weeks properly immersed in Singaporean life!

By the time I got home, there was no point sleeping – I still had packing to do and as I had to leave at 4am to catch my plane, I was worried that I’d sleep straight through and miss my flight if I went to sleep.      

Which seamlessly flows into Day 44...

I finished packing, returned the spaceship key and then dragged a big suitcase, a smaller bag, my rucksack (and of course my straw hat) through the crazy accommodation. A big thank you to the lovely uncle who was guarding the residence and kept me awake by chatting to me while I waited for my taxi. For non-Singaporeans: here, as a sign of respect, everyone addresses all elderly people as ‘uncle’ and ‘aunty,’ and I had fully embraced this tradition by now.

I have to say, driving past MBS on the way to Changi airport was pretty emotional. I don’t think I’ll ever forget that view from the 57th floor... In the airport I realised that I was rather hungry and here I showed another sign of true Asian-ness: at 5am I ordered wanton noodle soup with fishballs and chilli J

As soon as I got on the plane to Dubai, I fell into a super deep sleep. A few hours later, I woke up and watched ‘The Impossible,’ which is based on a true story of a family surviving the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami. It was very powerful and I cried quite a lot (I really hope that it wasn’t too awkward for the little boy sat next to me!)  

My five hour stay over at Dubai airport flew by surprisingly quickly. After the usual perfume spraying and looking through all the duty free things which I’d never buy, I kept relocating between different seating areas to keep things varied. I finally settled down in the cosy Costa arm chairs and enjoyed their snacks, which had a lovely Middle Eastern twist to them.

Before I knew it, I was boarding the flight to Heathrow and I was already starting to feel the British vibes. Despite how surprisingly at home I’ve felt in Singapore, I sure have missed Europe, and especially my fabulous family and friends!! I slept a bit on the plane, but mostly enjoyed making the most of my window seat - I love window seats so much! It was so exciting flying over Iraq, Afghanistan, Turkey and all the other countries. I saw the actual Tigris River (I was simultaneously following our route on the map on the screen J) and endless deserts and mountains... Hello there magnificent Geography!


So, the journey was painless and actually quite enjoyable. I love flying, both when going away and when returning home, which means that there are no excuses not to come back to South East Asia – there are still so many countries which I absolutely must explore!! But for now, I say a huge thank you to Singapore... For your hospitality, for all the new experiences which you’ve given me, for the incredible people which I’ve met here, for all the out-of-this-world food and for a generally unforgettable six weeks. As I prepare to face severe avocado milkshake withdrawal symptoms, I bid you farewell for now Singapore, and most sincerely hope that our paths will cross again!    

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